I realized that you will never be able to fully move on unless you settle things behind. Problems and issues shouldn’t be left unresolved. You can’t really continue going forward by just ignoring and forgetting them. When you thought it was over and you don’t have to bring it up anymore, it will find its way back to you – it will not cause you another problem instead it will come to you as a chance. It will come back to you not to haunt you but to give you an opportunity to settle things so that you can start over again. When it comes back, see it differently – not as a problem in the past but as a solution that you have to do in the present for a better version of you in the days to come.
And we should be thankful for it. I know that it’s scary and it won’t be easy but we just have to believe that we have not just someone but our Father to depend on.
We’ll get through this, too.
xiexii 